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The bitchy element!
Sunday, 28 June 2009
As you know by now Trojan (Trojans Corner) and I have been taking salsa classes for a while, we love it, and we go to a really small, friendly club to learn. It’s a great place to begin as everyone is learning and no-one makes you feel bad if you mess up…
As we have progressed, we tried a different club this week. I loved the class, the instructor broke down the steps, it was harder, more of a challenge and I think we’ll learn a lot…but unlike our usual class…there was an underlying bitchy element.
But Trojan said he didn’t notice, he thought everyone was friendly…how little does he know? Of course, the women were friendly TO HIM!!!! Trojan’s about six foot three and bloody gorgeous, not that he thinks of himself that way, and there is soooo much more to him, he’s the sweetest, most supportive guy… but he is a good looking guy, its okay, he knows, he must do, he has a mirror right?
So yes, of course the women were friendly (and for friendly read flirting outrageously) with him. Me…not so much, I got looked up and down, I got thrown looks, snubbed a bit and disliked a bit…but only by a few of the women, everyone else was fine.
Why are women like this with each other???
28 June 2009 at 10:05
I came across this attitude with my ex-b/f. He was a real friendly guy and women were always looking at me, as if to say, "What's he doing with you?"
We were at a gas station once, and he said "Hi" to the woman at the pump in front of us. She gave me a nasty look and I just smiled because I knew he was coming home with me. lol!
I've never gotten this with my (current) man, though, because he doesn't pay attention to anyone but me. He's not unfriendly, but he's not flirty.
28 June 2009 at 13:21
When you find out, let me know. Women like that generally don't have any close friends...at least that's what I tell myself. BTW--he is gorgeous, and so are you!
28 June 2009 at 14:09
The only thing my DH notices about other women is their shoes. He loves high-high heels, slingy backs, and open toes. I wear 'flip-flops', and he is okay with that.
I've never worried about other women, and he's never worried about other men.
I don't know why women are like that. They must be insecure and afraid they'll never get a man.
28 June 2009 at 16:15
Women make me crazy.... I don't know why we act the way we do. If it's not acting this way, it's another. My biggest beef is why we all compare ourselves in looks, body type, weight. Looking back to high school pics I can't figure out why I always felt so fat! We're all different, we shouldn't look alike!!
28 June 2009 at 16:35
We need lots of video of you dancing!
I have an award for you!
28 June 2009 at 18:28
Why ARE women like this? Then try being divorced; then you are really the enemy.
28 June 2009 at 19:40
the thing is, we make it clear that we are just friends, I talk about my husband even... i guess its just a hazard if you're gonna go somewhere with someone who looks like a model lol!!!
28 June 2009 at 20:23
I've always wondered the same. Why do women have to be so bitchy to each other? I, of course, always considered myself above such behavior, until I met "Naomi". She was a friend of a friend and she annoyed me. But I only hung out with her occasionally when Jen brought her along. So I'm sure I did a fine job hiding my true feelings. Well apparently, not so much. Jen shows up at my place to pick me up and says, "Naomi is coming. Be nice, ok. She doesn't have very many friends." Me: "What?! Of course I'll be nice. When am I not?" Jen: "Whenever Naomi is around. You're kind of a bitch." Me: "Oh."
So I thought I'd done a really great job of being nice the whole night. I really, really tried. Then a week or so later, I reviewed photos taken throughout the evening. There were a couple of shots of me listening to Naomi talk and the look on my face is PURE BITCH. So yes, I am fully capable of being one of the bitchy ones. Sad, but true.
28 June 2009 at 21:19
J E A L O U S. Your gorgeous, he's gorgeous. Heck, I'm jealous of you!! But I would still be nice to you!!
28 June 2009 at 21:47
Boy, you are gathering up the awards today! I guess that is what happens when you are so entertaining! Stop by when you get a chance.
29 June 2009 at 08:12
I have something for you over at my blog!
29 June 2009 at 23:54
LOL I have no idea. Women are complicated to begin with.