The Mayonnaise Jar
Tuesday, 14 July 2009
When things in your life seem, Almost too much to handle,
When 24 Hours in a day is not enough,
Remember the mayonnaise jar and 2 cups of coffee.
A professor stood before his philosophy class
He had some items in front of him.
When the class began, wordlessly,
He picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar
And proceeded to fill it with golf balls.
He then asked the students, if the jar was full.
They agreed that it was.
The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured
them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly.
The pebbles rolled into the open areas between the golf balls.
He then asked the students again
If the jar was full... They agreed it was.
The professor next picked up a box of sand
And poured it into the jar.. Of course, the sand filled up everything else.
He asked once more if the jar was full. The students responded
With an unanimous 'yes.'
The professor then produced Two cups of coffee from under the table
And poured the entire contents Into the jar, effectively
Filling the empty space between the sand.
The students laughed.
'Now,' said the professor, As the laughter subsided,
'I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life..
The golf balls are the important things - God, family,
children, health, friends, and favorite passions –
Things that if everything else was lost
And only they remained, your life would still be full.
The pebbles are the other things that matter Like your job, house, and car.
The sand is everything else --
The small stuff.
'If you put the sand into the jar first,' He continued,
'there is no room for the pebbles or the golf balls.
The same goes for life..
If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff,
You will never have room for the things that are
Important to you.
So...
Pay attention to the things That are critical to your happiness.
Playwith your children.
Take time to get medical checkups.
Take your partner out to dinner.
There will always be time
To clean the house and fix the disposal.
'Take care of the golf balls first --
The things that really matter.
Set your priorities. The rest is just sand.'
One of the students raised her hand
And inquired what the coffee represented.
The professor smiled.
'I'm glad you asked'.
It just goes to show you that no matter how full your life may seem,
there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend.'
14 July 2009 at 13:11
I have read this before, but it is as true today as it is at any time.
Have time for a cup of coffee, or tea, with a friend, friend!
14 July 2009 at 13:40
I really needed this today!!!
14 July 2009 at 14:12
Never heard this before. Love It!
Thanks.
14 July 2009 at 14:14
What a great way to start the day. I think I am a fan of the professor!
Cheers
14 July 2009 at 15:34
This is just fabulous and just what I think everyone needs to read, see, understand...KNOW.
PERFECT Sally!
ps I had no idea your whole family was sick! As you know, we had it in our house too! You'll be happy to know that only 2 people got it in my home, so, maybe you'll luck out as well. Saying prayers that you get over it quickly!
14 July 2009 at 15:43
WOW! i've never seen this before... but it really touches me, thnx for sharing.
14 July 2009 at 16:05
I had never heard this before...What a great lesson! Thanks for this!
Hope everyone in your household is feeling well!
14 July 2009 at 18:44
I've read this before, but I always love reading it again and again. It never fails to bring a little tear to my eyes. Sometimes life seems difficult and complicated. But when we break it down like that, IT IS ALL SO SIMPLE...
Thanks for sharing it with us. Thoughts and prayers still coming your way.
14 July 2009 at 20:13
With the last few days I have been having, I really needed this. Thank you for sharing it.
14 July 2009 at 20:48
This was a great read. Summarizing life so simply could really be a Godsend to many people. The complications we create in our minds only hold us back. I thought this was great, as is your blog. I am linking to you in a post today, if you don't mind. :) Happy Tuesday.
15 July 2009 at 15:02
I love this... What a great reminder for me today.
16 July 2009 at 06:29
Sally this was an awesome post and I'm so glad that I came over to read it! It really does make you stop and think how things are prioritized!
Hope Deion is starting to feel better!