Wednesday, 29 July 2009
Recently, I have been asked for advice, and am at a loss what to think and say. I try to be very careful when giving advice, seeing it from both sides and being very clear about it only being one persons opinion.
Does a bully have to realise they are a bully to actually be a bully?
If someone feels intimidated, not of physical violence, but emotionally, anger even, then is it a fact that they are being bullied, or is it possible they just feels bullied.
I don't know if this is making sense actually, but if someone has to adjust their behaviour, for fear of how another person will react, are theybullied?
If the would be bully shows no outward signs that they are behaving in an intimidating manner, even perhaps doesn't think they are...is it still bullying?
This person certainly likes to be in control, certainly can be selfish, but is it a character trait, or a bullying trait???
What would you say if a friend asked you?????